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Growing up as part of a large, tight knit family, we were always there for each of life’s special occasions. Whether it was a birthday, a graduation, wedding, or funeral, the family came together to celebrate, reminisce and laugh. It’s what got us through good times and bad.
As an adult, I find my family fractured. Not in a family fight or disturbing way, but just broken up over the shear distance we now live from each other. Gone are the weekends at the lake in Pennsylvania, the family reunions down the Jersey Shore and the convergence on a banquet facility for a special event.
The main interactions we have now are virtual. My close knit family is now my virtual one. The cousins with which I skipped rocks with on the lake, threw Frisbees with on the beach, and drank root beer straight from the keg and laughed and laughed and laughed again with — are now avatars and text messages.
In many ways having a virtual family is definitely better than losing touch. I still see the pictures from birthday parties, new additions to the family tree and will occasionally be reminded of an adventure my cousins and I had during our youth. Our chats are sometimes reduced to 140 characters, but sometimes that’s part of the fun.

Several years ago, when I heard my favorite Aunt she had only hours to live, I booked a flight home. I didn’t make it in time, but I was there with the rest of my family for her funeral and it was beautiful. The church was packed. My Uncle delivered her eulogy. There wasn’t a dry eye in the building.
What was missing though, was my Father, her only brother. Having been ill for quite some time he didn’t have the strength to attend. The flight home, the long drive to the country and the stress of the funeral would have been too much for him to bear. So, as we sat together as a family in a small country church in Northeastern Pennsylvania, my Dad sat at home in Florida — alone with his memories of his sister.
Had funeral webcasting been available, my Dad would have been able to say good-bye. He would have been able to see our family together and had been a part of that special day. He would have loved the eulogy as it was filled with special memories and funny stories.I think missing the funeral was something that weighed heavily on him. He often would say with regret that he wished he wasn’t confined to the house and could have been there. I wished he had too. The family needed him and he needed us.
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Protecting your family can be quite a challenge, and it’s only natural to want to do everything possible to ensure they remain safe and healthy. Unfortunately it impossible to protect your family from every bad thing in the world, but when it comes to your home there are things everyone can do to help keep safe. Just like a sports team working towards a goal, a family working together, can help ensure family safety. Here are 5 family safety tips that can help your family conquer some common household dangers.
1) A fire is reported every 45 seconds, and almost 180,000 people a year are hospitalized for burns in the U.S. According to the American Red Cross, the most common disaster in the country is household fires. The first step is to install a smoke alarm on every floor of your house, and in any room where the door is commonly kept closed. Just be aware that it takes more than a smoke alarm and early warning to protect your family from a house fire, it takes planning. It’s imperative to develop an escape plan for the family in case of an emergency. A monthly practice drill is vital so that everyone knows instinctively what to do and where to go, if a fire should happen. Another step is to conduct monthly tests to check if each fire alarm is working properly, and to make sure to replace the batteries every six months.
2) Get your home tested for radon leaks. The Surgeon General warns that radon is the second leading cause of lung cancer in the United States. Radon is found all over the U.S. and comes from natural radioactive gas that you can’t detect, since it has no odor. Getting your home’s radon level tested is easy and relatively inexpensive, plus it’s the only way to know if your home has a leak. If tests show excess amount of radon in your home, the leak can usually be fixed with proper repairs.
3) Protect your family from carbon monoxide. It is estimated that 200 people die from carbon monoxide poisoning each year, and that number could be higher. Many times the victim will suffer the effects of carbon monoxide poisoning without knowing it. So it’s important to know the symptoms of CO poisoning. The symptoms of CO poisoning are very similar to the flu. Symptoms include; nausea, vomiting, dizziness, fatigue and weakness, headaches, sleepiness, and confusion. If anyone in your family start showing signs of CO poisoning, immediately open windows and doors and go to the emergency room, and report the suspected CO poisoning. Carbon Monoxide Detectors are an excellent way to get early warning of a carbon monoxide leak in your home. Just as with fire detector CO detectors should be installed on every level of your home as well as in any routinely closed room. Never use a gas range burner, or ignite coals inside your home. Keep your garage ventilated to reduce car emissions, and don’t let your motor run while inside a closed garage.
4) Defend your home from burglaries and home break-ins. FBI reported, in 2009 that the average home burglaries value was over $2k. Their research also showed that more home burglaries occurred during daylight rather than at night. Protecting your family from burglaries will take team work. Teach the kids to never open the door unless they can see and identify the person, and if they don’t recognize them, then they must verify with an adult if the person has a legitimate reason for knocking at your door. Home burglary is generally a crime of opportunity, and the criminal will always try to avoid drawing attention. This makes home security systems a good deterrent to have. In fact a third of all home break-ins, the burglar found his way in through unlock doors or window. All family members must take responsibility for always locking doors and bedroom windows. Another preventive measure is to install motion activated lights in order to deter intruders from hiding in the dark. To monitor your home while you’re away, installing security cameras can help you keep an eye on your property.
5) Falls are the leading cause on nonfatal injuries seen in hospital emergency rooms for all ages. Use home safety devices, such as sensors or guards on windows to keep children from falling or climbing out of windows. Grab bars and rails in bathrooms help reduce accidents, especially for the elderly. Make sure everyone does their part to keep stairways, and hall ways clear of debris, toys, or anything that can cause someone to trip. For households with young children, gates at the top of stairs help keep children from falling. And lastly nightlights to illuminate dark rooms and pathways at night make it easy to avoid accidents while getting up from bed.

When my partner got offered a job abroad, I was really happy and excited about living in a different country with him but then I realised I will be leaving my family and friends behind. Now I just feel sad all the time, I treasure my time with my parents and I’m making the most of all my friends. I never realised how stressful it is to move from one place to another, I thought moving houses was bad but moving countries is even worse. I have to make sure I pack everything as I won’t be able just pop over and get whatever I have forgotten. Luckily I found a international removals company that wasn’t very expensive and available on the required date. My partner has been trying to sort out the furniture in our new house in Spain, so we don’t have to take it from here. We sent an email with pictures of the kind of furniture we would like for our house to his friend that lives in Spain. I really hope he finds everything, so then we don’t have to spend more money to get our old ones shipped over. It will be a fresh start in life with a new house, I really can’t wait to move as a change is always good but I just hope I find a job quickly. I don’t like the thought of sitting at home all alone in a strange country with no family or friends around me. My partner’s friend is trying to arrange something for me before we move, so I’m a little relaxed but won’t be fully until he finds me a job.I really hope he finds everything, so then we don’t have to spend more money to get our old ones shipped over. It will be a fresh start in life with a new house, I really can’t wait to move as a change is always good but I just hope I find a job quickly.I don’t like the thought of sitting at home all alone in a strange country with no family or friends around me. My partner’s friend is trying to arrange something for me before we move, so I’m a little relaxed but won’t be fully until he finds me a job

Knowing that you are gay can be a confusing, worrying and lonely time. For many people out there it may be harder for them to “come out” to family and friends for fear of being judged, unloved or cast aside, for the lucky ones they know they are loved unconditionally and no matter whether they are gay, lesbian or straight there family will be for them no matter what.

Luckily these days it is far more accepted and we are aware from an early age that not everyone are born the same. But it can still be very hard even if you have accepted this yourself, for those around you to accept this and not think that it is “just a phase” or something you will grow out of.There are so many people suffering in silence, we tend to think that it is just young people that are going through this stage, but there are so many older people in their 50 and 60′s that have lived with this all their lives for fear of rejection and ridicule.

I had an uncle that died at 70, we all knew he was gay, but for some reason in our family it was never spoken about, that was about 35 years ago, I think of how much happier his life may have been if he was allowed to live openly with his sexuality and if he’d known that he had the support of his family. Thank god times are moving on and people can be accepted for who they are not what they are.

More often than not the outcome is a happy one, most families have said that they have know that their son or daughter was gay from as young as 2 or 3 years old, but nobody has brought up the subject. I think in this day and age we are intelligent enough to realise that you are actually born gay, it isn’t something you can catch or something we have been made into somewhere along the way.

I hope this article will give gay people the courage to tell their loved ones, that “I am gay” and be able to enjoy a loving a supportive life with their family and friends.

I have many stories from people that have gone through this, they give their advice on how to go about telling your family, and maybe what to expect. I also have lots of resources that will be very useful for both the person coming out and their family. Coming out can just be the first stage, often some family members may need to seek counselling to come to terms with this.